She said, “My goodness—I never knew whether you needed me.” Suddenly she opened up like a flower to the sun and became the strong person she had always been. I only had to let her know she was needed. I allowed her to minister to me. This met an emotional need in her during a time of life when many wives are tied up with children and can’t do much outside. She began a whole new ministry along with me. The minister who denies his emotional needs is really denying his weaknesses. He thinks he’s a ninety-day